How To Find The G-Spot
 Did you know that women
can have several different types of orgasms?
Of course, it’s no
surprise that the “holy grail” of all the female orgasms is achieved
by stimulating the G-spot.
But finding it and knowing how to stimulate it correctly is the
hard part! Here’s an A-to-G on everything you need to know!
How to find it
First of all, the G-spot
is actually a zone, rather than an actual 'spot.' The G-spot is located about
2 inches inside the vagina on the topside.
You'll know when you've found it because it feels like a ribbed bump, like the
roof of your mouth just behind your front teeth.
Wow...does that sound sexy or what? How to stimulate the G-spot
While most men would love
to satisfy their ladies with intercourse, it’s not always the best idea.
Why? Because it depends on factors like the position, her level of arousal,
and penis and vaginal shape and size. In short: using fingers is the easiest
way to reach orgasm with the most chance of success.
Before
stimulating the G-spot most women need
to have their clitoris stimulated. But once it's
fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too sensitive for direct contact. Ask
your lady. Otherwise, the G-spot may feel dry and uncomfortable. After this
point, you can move onto the promised G-spot land.
The best sex positions
to stimulate the G-spot
To really stimulate the
G-spot, you'll need to be in a position that gives you great easy access to
work your magic. Here are two suggestions: 1) Your lady lies on her back while
you lie next to her, using your stronger arm. 2) She sits in doggie-style position,
while you sit and pleasure her from behind. Actually, if you want even more
passion and excitement, try changing from one position to another over the course
of your stimulation. Now let’s talk about how you should pleasure it.
The motion you want to
use is the "come over here" gesture, using your fingers. Keep in mind
that the G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means, in most cases,
you’ll stroke it slightly harder than the clitoris. Start by massaging
it lightly and work your way up to a point she finds incredibly satisfying.
Is she enjoying it?
Remember
that the best feeling will vary for every woman. Alternate between two very
slight movements or spots to find what she likes best. You’ll know what
she likes by her breathing or when she firmly grips you. Having said all that,
there is a way to make this experience even MORE pleasurable.
The missing
piece to a powerful orgasm
Did you know that prolonged
foreplay is said to intensify orgasms? That’s right. However, men often
focus so much on “performing” that they forget about spicing up
their lovemaking with new and exciting things. Let’s face it; most of
us are guilty of this...especially at half-time!
You take your clothes off and away you go, and,
within a few seconds or minutes, the routine is over. But as the bedroom magic
fades, it becomes harder and harder to make woman achieve orgasms. Why? Because
women long for variety in their sexual experience.
The very best way to please
women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of ideas’ ready to pull
out whenever they’re needed. I cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking
fresh and exciting in every way. That’s the secret to fulfilled lovemaking.
Want more info? Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb has compiled a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. Want more than a fistfull of secrets? Check out 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets
Jim Shaw 
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